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How to Deal With Tough Questions On Family Gathering
Fri, 5 Apr 2024How to Deal With Tough Questions On Family Gathering
Eid is a highly anticipated moment for many people. However, unfortunately, there are often sensitive questions that arise when gathering with family and relatives. Topics such as income, achievements, marriage, and plans to have children can be very uncomfortable, especially for teenage children. Here, we will discuss how parents can help protect their children from these sensitive questions in an elegant and wise manner.
Being Assertive: Parents can learn to be assertive when answering these sensitive questions. Try to give firm yet polite answers. For example, if someone asks when your child will get married, you could casually respond with "Our child is currently focused on education and career."
Steer the Conversation Elsewhere: If the questions become too uncomfortable, you can try steering the conversation towards more positive or neutral topics. For instance, you could start talking about upcoming family vacations or your child's achievements unrelated to the sensitive question.
Supporting Your Child: Make sure your child knows that you are always there to support them. If your child feels uncomfortable or hurt by the questions, provide support and encourage them to talk about their feelings.
Discussing Consent: Teach your child about the concept of consent – their right to control physical contact. If a child does not want to be carried, hugged or kissed by older relatives...
Forgiveness: Sometimes people asking sensitive questions do not realize their impact... Just forgive them and remember that we are all celebrating the festive day.
Eid is a time for celebrating happiness with family and relatives... By following the above tips,... make this moment more enjoyable... Happy Eid al-Fitr! Ramadan Forgiveness!"
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